“Irreverence at Mass is not the problem. It’s the symptom of the problem.” – Fr. Dwight Longenecker
Reverence = Deep respect for someone or something.
Every Sunday at Mass I see a mix of parishioners worshiping. I say “mix” because we come from all walks of life. Some are rich and some poor, some are more educated and some less so, some are there alone and some are with their families, and a variety of ethnicities are represented too. I also see a mix of clothing choices. A few are dressed up in their Sunday best, most are dressed in rather drab everyday clothing, and some come in clothing more suited to playing video games with one’s friends or watching a game on television. I often see team jerseys, untucked shirts, yoga pants, bedhead hair, etc. And some regulars even look like tourists off the bus.
We now live in a slob culture. The way most Americans dress, whether it’s for school, work, or church is fundamentally slobbish. [Full disclosure: I too am a slob.] Look at old pictures and you will see men everywhere dressed in nice shirts, ties, shiny shoes, sport coats and slacks, or suits. Consider the radical 1960’s. That was the time of throwing off convention. Right? Even then you see students so much better dressed than they are today.
Students protesting during the 1964–65 academic year on the campus of the University of California, Berkeley. Women in dresses and skirts, men in suits and ties.
Even in the mid-1960’s, not all that long ago, and even at a secular university doing secular things, students still believed they had to uphold their dignity as humanbeings in how they dressed.
Or consider this image below from the Apollo Mission Control Center in 1972. Even as recent as this picture was taken I don’t see a single man without a tie. That was routine then.
I know I don’t need to show any pictures of how people today dress. Untucked t-shirts, shorts, and flip-flops are considered acceptable for many office jobs today, especially in the tech industry. Hawaiian shirts and baggy jeans are even considered appropriate for Evangelical pastors on Sunday morning. Tight and ripped pants, untied tennis shoes, and offensive t-shirt graphics are typical in many schools. I know you’ve seen it all many times.
We take all this in stride. Most people would think it strange to make anything of it. In fact many would defend their slobbishness as not slobbishness at all. We have trouble making wise judgements. We just can’t see it. The dignity of human beings is like the frog slowly dying in the pot of water that has very slowly come to a boil.
Enlightenment Modernism is our worldview. It is the religion of the West. I posit that the gradually increasing and pervasive slobishness of our culture has resulted from the modernist changes to our anthropology. What we believe about what a human being is has everything to do with how what we do with ourselves and others, and with the kinds of cultures we create. As we have devalued man, emerging since the “loss” of human transcendence brought about by the Enlightenment (and probably earlier), and thus the loss of his God-imageness, man has become nothing more than an intelligent animal or a collection of atoms. Therefore, we have nothing to celebrate or uphold when we dress ourselves. We expect royalty to dress like royalty. We are child of the king. But we dress ourselves as slobs.
That this is often expressed at Mass is all the more troubling.
We are not only made in God’s image, we are also sons and daughters of the King. At Mass the King, our Lord and Savior, is truly before us, truly present. We come to worship our God and King. We are subjects in the Kingdom of Heaven. We are Christ’s body. How should we behave? How should we dress?
The real problem is, of course, not how we dress. To riff on the quote from Fr. Longenecker at the beginning of this post, our slobbishness is merely a symptom of the problem. If we Catholics dress like slobs at Mass, and if that is a symptom of a deeper problem, then what is that problem?
Some Catholics ready for Mass in a different time.
Perhaps we need to ask ourselves if we really believe “this stuff.” Are we really fully Catholic if we say in our actions that we don’t believe some of the Church’s most fundamental, most basic beliefs? Do we believe we are made in God’s image? Do we believe we are God’s children? Do we believe we are now royalty through the saving work of Christ? Do we believe in the Real Presence of Christ in the Eucharist?